A bedroom for the sons, but not the daughter – China society and culture news from April 26, 2017

Society & Culture

A summary of todayโ€™s top news in Chinese society and culture. Part of the daily The China Projectย news roundup "Cross toppler to head Chinaโ€™s police?"


A family from the southern city of Shenzhen with quadruplet sons and an older daughter is under fire this week for showing undisguised gender discrimination on an episode of A Warm New Homeย (ๆš–ๆš–็š„ๆ–ฐๅฎถ nuวŽnnuวŽn de xฤซnjiฤ), a home improvement show on Beijing TV.ย In the episode (on YouTube here), the parents talk about their hopes of accommodating seven members of their family in their 645-square-foot (60-square-meter) apartment. With help from interior designers, their apartment layout is rearranged in a way that grants everyone more space โ€” except for the older daughter. Instead of having her own room, she gets what Sixth Toneย callsย โ€œa makeshift bedroom hidden in the kitchen.โ€

Itโ€™s not just the living arrangements that are unfair: When the daughter first appears on the show, she is described as an โ€œuninvited guestโ€ (ไธ้€Ÿไน‹ๅฎข bรบ sรน zhฤซ kรจ) by a voice-over. When the whole family is shown having dinner together, she asks her mother where she should sit but does not get a reply โ€” she ends up eating standing up, while the rest of her family is seated.

On the Chinese social media platform Weibo, there has been a barrage of criticism of the family. โ€œIโ€™ve never seen a family that makes me this upset. I feel so bad for the sister,โ€ one Weibo user wroteย (in Chinese). The interior designer was also criticized, and he took to Weibo to defend himself, saying, โ€œTo design for such a family, we have to do it with a forward-looking vision. Adjustments will be made as kids grow up. We canโ€™t exclude the possibility of the sisterโ€™s moving out in the future.โ€ He later deleted the comment (screenshot here), which was ridiculed by internet users. One commenter wroteย (in Chinese), โ€œWhy didnโ€™t you design coffins for the family, since you are so forward-looking?โ€